We often get comments from parents and students that “they don’t understand work” or “teachers are not giving the required attention to a child” In the final analysis it is often revealed that either the child was not focused in class for whatever reason, or did not reference the resources given by the teacher. Most teachers are passionate about education and do all that they can to assist children. But it is up to children to accept responsibility for learning, and to apply themselves to reading, writing and understanding.
We can only teach responsibility by holding children accountable for their actions, rather than seeking causes elsewhere. Self management is an essential life skill.
So how do we help children to become self-reliant in their learning.
- Communicate on a deeper level. Go further than the general “how is school? do you have work to do?” That generally generates a blank response from kids. Be more specific – what did you doi in maths or science or any other subject. Can you teach me about it, explain, etc. If children cannot recall, perhaps look at the day’s work together (generally in notes, or on google classroom). Children crave attention from parents. Become involved in their lives.
- Hold them accountable in all that they do. They need a routine at home. This should include a short review of the days work and to complete any outstanding work from class,
- Sleep without electronics at hand. (It takes effort to implement!) If they cannot sleep, give them the choice to read a physical book.
- Help them develop a plan to manage their time, There are many tests, summatives, etc., that come up very quickly. So consistent review and study is important.
As teachers, we do this.
If parents do the same at home, perhaps we will move from frustratioin, disappointment and blame to acceptance, responsibility and independence..